We've been solving the wrong problem in customer experience for decades. Customers said they hated waiting. So we took their word for it. We threw technology at the wait time. Self-help. Automated responses. Chatbots. Then AI arrived and gave us exactly what we thought customers wanted instant everything, and customers still asked for a human. Were customers being dishonest? Well, not really. What customers actually hated waiting for was not resolution, but reassurance. The a

The customer who never complains is the one you are about to lose. Anger is manageable. It shows up, makes noise, gets escalated, gets resolved. Someone closes the ticket and calls it a win. The expensive emotions don't make noise. Confusion. Embarrassment. That anxiety of not knowing if you're doing it right. The slow loss of control mid-transaction that makes someone close the tab and never come back. These don't generate complaints. They generate silence and silence, in a

If your reviews are split between people who love you and people who hate you, your problem is not your product. It is that you are selling it to the wrong people. Polarised reviews are not a reputation problem. They are a targeting problem wearing a reputation problem's clothes. What that split tells you: Somewhere inside your customer base there are two completely different personas. One of them finds your product obvious, intuitive, exactly what they needed. The other find

2002 Nobel prize laureate Daniel Kahneman said "For some of our most important beliefs we have no evidence at all, except that people we love and trust hold these beliefs. Considering how little we know, the confidence we have in our beliefs is preposterous - and it is also essential." And then I thought about NPS. And I laughed. Then felt sad. It was hilarious and all too real at the same time. Nobody woke up one day and decided CSAT and NPS were the twin pillars of customer

Being known for great customer experience is fantastic. But, if it isn't adding revenue, then what’s the point? You can make the same argument for great branding, great marketing, also, great leadership. If it doesn't connect to a commercial outcome at some point, it's just an expensive hobby with a (maybe) good-looking dashboard. In one of my discovery calls for a consulting assignment, I was asked to come in and track a metric that would look good on paper and make the earl

Why Return on Experience Beats Return on Investment

In a world where customers are more demanding than they ever were, customer experience is key. Welcome to the wild, ever-shifting circus...