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Unpopular Opinion: Having a Plan B might be working against your Plan A. Behavioral science has long studied a concept sometimes called the "burning the boats" effect. When Hernán Cortés landed in Mexico and burned his ships, his soldiers had one option left: fight and win. No retreat meant no mental bandwidth wasted on retreat. Researchers studying commitment devices have found something similar in modern decision-making: when an escape route exists, the brain quietly keeps

Your best customers are gathering evidence against you. They are doing it out of habit. They ask for something, get told no, and instead of arguing, they go test your organization somewhere else - a different rep, a different department, a different level of seniority. If they get a yes the second time, they now know something you don't: that your "no" was never really a company policy. It was just one person's answer. They won't tell you this. But they'll remember it. Here's

Your customers are lying to you. They don't even know they're doing it. They ask for a feature. What they mean is "make my pain go away." They ask for a discount. What they mean is "I don't feel like this is worth it." They ask for a policy change. What they mean is "something in this experience broke my trust." Most companies fulfill the request. The best companies decode the intent underneath it. The average businesses and great ones split by their ability to decode custome

Try this thought experiment with me for a minute. You're on a hiring panel. There's a candidate sitting across from you. Smart, sharp, clearly capable. But something's off. They don't laugh at the right moments. They challenge an assumption you didn't even know was an assumption. They don't feel like "one of us." So you pass. You tell yourself it's instinct. You call it culture fit. Now imagine the opposite scenario. Every single hire from here on out feels effortless. They g

In 2009, Domino's was the fastest pizza company in the world and customers hated the pizza. In their own taste tests, people rated identical pizza lower the moment they were told it came from Domino's. The brand itself had become a flavor and it tasted like punishment. Most companies bury feedback like that. You rework the recipe, keep the cameras off, and hope nobody remembers how bad it got. Admitting the product is broken feels like handing customers a reason to leave. Dom

Chasing fairness in an unfair world is stupidity. Life doesn't distribute talent, opportunity, or circumstance equally. It never has, and never will. Yet we've built entire systems - political, social, institutional, around the pursuit of fairness. Why? Because the human mind cannot tolerate randomness. Psychologists call this the "just-world hypothesis", our deep cognitive need to believe that outcomes are deserved. That if we work hard enough, follow the right rules, and fi

We've been solving the wrong problem in customer experience for decades. Customers said they hated waiting. So we took their word for it. We threw technology at the wait time. Self-help. Automated responses. Chatbots. Then AI arrived and gave us exactly what we thought customers wanted instant everything, and customers still asked for a human. Were customers being dishonest? Well, not really. What customers actually hated waiting for was not resolution, but reassurance. The a

The worst customer experience in Bengaluru built a 1,000-outlet empire. A man removed chairs from his restaurant in 1983. Bengaluru called him crazy. Municipal corporations eventually created a license category named after him. R. Prabhakar was a businessman from Basavanagudi who'd just returned from abroad. He'd watched McDonald's and fast-food chains operate at a scale that felt almost unfair - fast, cheap, packed, profitable. But he didn't want to sell burgers. He wondered

The last time someone on your team brought you bad news, what did you do in the next ten seconds? That reaction matters more than the open-door policy you've put in place. It's the moment your team learns what honesty actually costs in your organisation. Harvard researcher Amy Edmondson uncovered this almost by accident while studying medical teams in the 1990s. She expected the best-performing teams to report fewer errors. Instead, she found the opposite: the higher-performi

13 MILLION SELLERS in 2021. ₹0 STARTING CAPITAL. How Two IIT Graduates Built a Business Model So Hard to Copy, Shopsy by Flipkart Failed Trying. In 2015, Amazon and Flipkart were at war for urban India. But these two IIT graduates, Vidit Aatrey and Sanjeev Barnwal went the other direction. They went to the housewife in Nagpur reselling sarees on WhatsApp. The boutique owner in Surat with no supply chain access. The first-generation entrepreneur in Patna who wanted to start a

Lewis Hamilton won the Barcelona Grand Prix yesterday. 106th career win. First ever in a Ferrari. And if you watched that race, you already know this wasn't a lucky win. He crossed the line 19.5 seconds ahead of second place. Absolutely dominant. But the story behind that win is what greatness looks like. Hamilton joined Ferrari in 2025 carrying every expectation imaginable. The most storied team in the sport joined by the statistically the best driver in Formula 1. A teamma

90% startups treat marketing and customer experience as separate departments. They're not. They're two sides of the same coin. Every rupee you spend on ads, campaigns, and brand building is essentially a promise. And every time a customer has a bad experience, that promise is broken. You can think of it like filling a bucket with a hole in it. You can keep pouring in more water, but if the leaks aren't fixed, you're just running faster to stay in the same place. A dissatisfie

Restaurants keep crowds waiting because it makes the place look popular. I’ve seen this at play. Rameshwaram Cafe is doing the same thing. Or so I thought. But after visiting the newly opened Rameshwaram Cafe in Bommasandra, I changed my perception. Let me start with what confused me first. Rameshwaram Cafe has the staff, the tech, and the systems to move orders fast. But they don't and this is true even at 5 AM, when there's barely anyone inside. Other South Indian restauran

The funny thing about truly elite people is that they're the last ones who think they've figured it out. The ones who are genuinely the best at what they do - the top 1%, the top 0.1%, they're always hungry to learn more. They're the most restless people in the room. Always convinced there's another level they haven't reached yet. And they're right. So here's the question I had to answer recently - what do I actually give someone like that? It's not talent. Everyone at that l

The wrong people will convince you that wanting more is something to be ashamed of. Here’s why I say this: In college, after scoring among the highest in my semester, a group I used to call friends walked into my hostel room and spent an hour calling me a nerd and laughing at me. I don't call them friends anymore. In fact, I haven’t seen or spoken to them since I graduated college. I've had the pleasure of genuinely great company and the displeasure of really poor ones. The d

I've worked across Fintech, Healthcare, HR Tech and SaaS. A poorly handled customer query costs you differently in every single one. They all underestimate the emotional weight of the problem they're solving. The fundamentals of great CX never change, regardless of where you are: - Clear communication - Predictable response times - Fair resolutions - Keeping your word - Consistency - across product, operations, communications, and support Simple in theory. Brutally hard in pr

The first time a Wakefit mattress arrived at my home, I didn't know what to expect. Except that there was a 100-night return policy, which I found hard to believe. But it helped build trust, and it worked. What I got was a tightly rolled, vacuum-sealed package that looked nothing like a mattress. Then you cut the wrap open with the custom blade that came with it. Slowly, it begins to unfurl. It expands, takes shape, fills the bed. It's oddly theatrical - the product performin

Every hiring manager has said it. "Skills can be trained. Hire for attitude." I've hired for attitude. It works - until it doesn't. And when it doesn't, it's not a small problem. Here's something experience taught me that no hiring framework will: Attitude gets you in the door. But attitude without the foundational skill to back it - creates a very specific kind of mess. The person works hard. Wants it badly. But can't execute. And because they care so much, feedback becomes

Team A doubles their customer base in 12 months. They celebrate. Hires more sales reps. Team B doubles their customer base in 12 months. Then asks - can our experience handle this? One of these teams will be fighting churn in Q3. You already know which one. Here's what ends up getting skipped in all the celebrations: Growth exposes you. Every crack in your process, every gap in your handoff, every promise your sales team made that your ops team can't keep - scale just makes i

What if you could just... ask? Just open WhatsApp and type - "I left my charger at the office, can you get it?" and someone would do that for you? In CX, we talk endlessly about reducing friction. Dunzo, in 2014, had eliminated it entirely. I've spent years studying what makes customers come back, what makes an experience stick and what Dunzo had built, almost accidentally, was the answer. They just didn't have a name for it yet! It should have been called a conversational co